hey me, too!!

Sometimes I think I'm from another world (preach)
When I'm trynna tell a woman just exactly where I stand that (aight)
I want a girl, when I want a girl
And when I don't want a girl, I want a girl who understands that
And that's some hard shit to explain
To a woman that's in love with you, it's a pitiful thing
Until I had to figure
That I don't wanna play around, but I don't wanna settle down
And that's a man's dilemma,

from Little Brother.

that's exactly how i view relationships, and how come some guys don't see that girls can see it that way too? or at least me.. ok, so i'm not so much a girl most of the time. but just cause i would be someone to settle for, doesn't mean you'd have to settle now. nor does it mean that you have to blow me off because you don't want to settle and not give me the time of day! ok, i'm not speaking of anyone in particular, but i've just felt that guys don't see it that way, especially in relation to me.
i'm not much for settling right now. the words love and marriage make me cringe inside my stomach. so i'm definitely not looking for long term type stuff. but at the same time, i'm not ruling out relationships entirely. if we click, we click. and why can't it just be left at that? why can't there just be a status that's inbetween nothing and something.. and that isn't unattached, or platonic persay.. but that means something. it just wouldn't be so.. time/emotion investing.. you know?
if anyone comes along, i just want someone to be down for me. more later.